Lenka Lutonska
Wellness Tip:
Start With Identity
Most of us try to change our lives by changing our behaviour. We add habits, download yet another new app, write longer to-do lists. But research suggests change sticks better when it’s tied to our identity.
When you anchor into who you are becoming, your brain starts looking for evidence to support that identity. Your decisions shift, your confidence increases, and you gain a greater sense of direction.
So, instead of asking, “What should I do today?”
Try asking, “Who am I choosing to be today?”
That subtle shift builds self-awareness and guides your behaviors, so you stay on the path to becoming who you want to be.
Thanks to this week’s guest, Lenka Lutonska, for inspiring this idea. Read on for her full routine below!
Routine Breakdown
By Lenka Lutonska, Founder & CEO, Business Energetics®
A 7-Figure Founder’s 20-Minute Routine for Clarity

“My morning routine is designed to do one thing above all else: ensure I lead the day rather than react to it,” says Lenka Lutonska, mindset and business coach, author, and founder of Business Energetics®, a multiple 7-figure business. Her routine sets her up for clarity and momentum and only takes 10-20 minutes.
The Routine:
- Clears her mental and emotional state. “Before checking my phone or emails, I take a few minutes to notice and release any tension, mental noise, or emotional residue.
- Anchors into who she is today. “I consciously connect with the version of myself who is already grounded, decisive, and leading at the level I’m building toward.”
- Asks one orienting question: “How does the next-level leader in me want to lead today?” This cuts through prioritisation noise. “It shifts me from task management into true leadership and direction.”
- Listens before she acts. “I create a short pause to listen inwardly – not overthinking, just allowing clarity to surface. The most effective actions are often obvious once you stop forcing answers.”
- Commits to one clear, aligned action. “I identify one action or decision that will move the business forward meaningfully – especially if it feels slightly uncomfortable. Progress doesn’t come from doing everything. It comes from doing the right thing, from clarity rather than pressure.”
Why it works:
- As Lenka says, unprocessed stress can quietly drive our decisions and how we communicate. “Clearing it first creates calm focus and prevents reactive leadership,” she says.
- Our sense of identity creates self-awareness, provides direction, and improves decision-making. In Lenka’s words, “Anchoring into identity stabilises confidence and sharpens decision-making throughout the day.”
- A quick pause and one orienting question can shift us out of reactive, stress-driven mode and back into deliberate thinking. Even brief moments of mindful reflection have been shown to enhance attention and emotion regulation, leading to better decision quality.
- Committing to one clear, meaningful action reduces cognitive overload and increases follow-through.
“Only after this process do I open email or messages and begin the day,” says Lenka. “This prevents external demands from hijacking focus and ensures I stay in a creative state rather than a reactive one.”














