Dr. Jeanne Retief
Wellness Tip:
Try a 90-second Movement Reset
You know those moments when stress hits, tensions run high, and your emotions completely take over? Yeah, we all have those. Here’s something to try.
Set a timer for 90 seconds (or just count in your head), and then move. Do some jumping jacks, take a brisk walk, or even just shake out your arms.
Neuroscientist Jill Bolte Taylor says that the body’s chemical stress response naturally peaks and fades within about 90 seconds:
“When a person has a reaction to something in their environment, there’s a 90-second chemical process that happens; any remaining emotional response is just the person choosing to stay in that emotional loop.”
You can simply ride it out with deep breaths, but adding movement gives your body an active release. It clears stress hormones and helps break the cycle of overthinking. Try it for yourself!
Routine Breakdown
Dr. Jeanne Retief, Founder of FIGGI Beauty & the Calm Club
How a Doctor’s Routine Turned Panic to Peace
“I founded FIGGI after my panic disorder diagnosis in 2015, forcing me to leave behind a successful career in international human rights,” says Dr. Jeanne Retief. “My evening routine is therefore essential, not just as a successful founder, but in ensuring I maintain a steady mental health foundation to work with my unique wiring rather than against it.”
The Routine:
- Gets home after her work day and immediately puts her phone to charge in a separate room and closes the door for the night. “This routine creates an excellent ceremonial end to the digital day, and the small step of choosing a different room and closing the door serves as a symbolic close to that part of the day. It tells my mind that I am starting the process of switching off.”
- Ensures her daughter has a healthy and consistent bedtime routine. “If your kids are not in a good routine, you can’t be. My goal was to establish a consistent bedtime routine with minimal fuss, develop good sleeping habits, and maintain healthy sleep patterns. We have a strict dinner time routine, followed by family time, brushing teeth, and bedtime. Bedtimes are combined with a story, and then she knows it’s time to sleep.”
- Goes to bed 1.5 hours before sleeping. “There are a few key things to have in place here: Low lighting, a tidy bedroom free from clutter, and absolutely no screens,” says Jeanne. “This atmosphere allows me to unwind and become calm. I drink a cup of tea and let my mind wander.” This allows her to think through all the thoughts that might otherwise keep her on edge. “If these thoughts start to overwhelm me – I journal. I write them down and list how I can solve the problem. I often realize, throughout this exercise, that my mind is overthinking, and most of the issues causing me stress are either already taken care of or have an easy fix.”
- Sleep!
Why it works:
- End-of-work “shutdown rituals” can help us to create mental boundaries and disconnect from work. And by putting her phone in another room, Jeanne ensures it can’t become a distraction (research shows the mere presence of our phones causes “brain drain”.)
- According to Sleep Foundation, sleep routines for kids really are all that. “Research shows that children who follow bedtime routines are more likely to go to sleep earlier, take less time falling asleep, sleep longer, and wake up less during the night.”
- Mind-wandering can make us more creative and boost mood, while journaling has a bunch of mental health benefits like helping us manage stress and process emotions.
A solid evening routine can help you sleep better, cut down your screen time, and prepare for a more productive tomorrow. What’s one thing you could add or remove to your evening routine to make it better?